My husband is not a fan of LoTR. He kept this well concealed until somewhere in our fifth year of marriage, at which point I figured an annullment was probably out of the question. And since I'm not Catholic or in a soap opera, I don't think I'm even allowed to do that.
Anyway. He lucked out.
I dragged him to the first LoTR, and had to elbow him awake a few times, much to my dismay. I didn't bother taking him with me to see the second one, and the marathon would have probably killed him for good--- so he never saw them. Until a few weeks ago, when I finally managed to rent the last two and I hogtied him. And gagged him. And reminded him how much child support would run if he didn't do this for me.
A good seven hours later, we were both thoroughly saturated in dramatic, theatrical dialogue and landscape. We were taking an intermission, and I stretched my back, trying to get the "pregnancy kinks" out. Patrick put his hand on my belly and asked, "So, how's the kiddo doing?", to which I replied, "Oh, it's fine. Kind of quiet tonight, though.".
And Patrick, with all the seriousness of Gandalf the White Wizard, proclaimed in his most dramatic voice, "His time has not yet come."
Smarty pants.
But, his time IS coming soon. I am 29 weeks. I figure I won't make it till 40 weeks, being the 3rd baby and with me working full time. So, ten weeks or less, and this little one will be here! I'm excited. I'm not impatient, but I am looking forward to meeting this little squirmy one. I'm to the point where I am starting to get a bit uncomfortable, but I'm not miserable yet. I've got a few more weeks in me before I really start to turn on the whine. Oh, and I see you rolling your eyes back there, Patrick. Careful now.
Anywho, all this to say, tomorrow I have an ultrasound. I had a routine ultrasound three weeks ago, and they found a uterocele (a cyst) on the baby's bladder. The doctor told me not to freak out, that these things often disappear. He said it didn't seem to be interfering with the functioning of the bladder/kidneys, and that was good. We would re-evaluate it in three weeks, and take it from there. Well, that's tomorrow.
I've done a very good job of taking his advice on not freaking out, and I've kept it in perspective for three whole weeks. But now, on the eve of the next ultrasound, I'll admit I'm fighting nervousness. I think it will turn out okay, I really do, but I would appreciate your thoughts tomorrow around 9ish. Send some good mojo my way, and I'll post an update when I get back.
Wish us luck!
i have heard of catholics getting annulments after 20 years of marriage and 4 kids.
Posted by: jessie at March 14, 2005 06:52 PMWhat's LoTR?
Don't freak our on the Ultrasound. On my daughter's SECOND one they were talking about fluid in the baby's BRAIN (turns out it was a millimeter from the middle range of average they were talking about, a hair, a speck). They went on about it and all possible scenarios, it may be nothing blah, blah, blah. Then after worrying for a month, basically said they same thing at the THIRD ultrasound, it had not changed or gotten bigger blah, blah, blah. Turns out it was NOTHING and we worried needlessly. I think they just liked to hear themselves talk about how much they think they know about what seems to be average. Made me SO mad!
Then I read something about ultrasounds and having too many can just lead to unneccessary worry like this. They shouldn't stress people out till they know for sure. I mean like my daughter said and I agreed, if there IS something wrong with him, and they can't do anything till he's born, so what? we still love him just the same!
Anyhoo, I was just trying to say, don't worry! It will be FINE!
Sorry Annie-- I'll clarify for all you laymen out there. LoTR is "Lord of the Rings".
Glad the fluid on the brain wasn't an issue, by the way! I actually had to have a more advanced ultrasound with my second child because they were worried about that, too. Turns out the dr's ultrasound machine was just not good quality! WHEW!!
Posted by: Shannon at March 14, 2005 10:19 PMI'll be sending all the good mojo your way that I can muster....you know, of course, that you are guilty of keeping too much info to yourself (like too many others in the family). No more secrets, pleeeeeease. By the way, I enjoy reading your blogs so much.....what a talented writer you are, I can hardly wait til the day I can go in bookstores and buy your books! Love Ya!
Posted by: Aunt J at March 15, 2005 09:33 AM I'm sure it will all be fine. And if there is a problem it's all in God's hands and will work out
just as He planned.
God bless my new little grandnephew or grandniece...
I'm praying...
Andlove you, too...
p.s. congratulations, Patrick... i'm so glad you've jointed the fellowship of the ring...
Posted by: Aunt Vickie at March 15, 2005 11:21 AM